I have always gotten the words, ‘libidinous” and “lobotomized” confused By Seamus O'Sparks on March 3, 2014 — 1 min read Just so you know, I have always gotten the words, ‘libidinous” and “lobotomized” confused. It makes my online dating life a living hell. “Single white lobotomized male seeks similar females for N.S.A. Roman orgy.” Sometime my life makes Caligula look like Woodrow Wilson. More